Comes around Goes Around
Dear Diary,
Im sitting here this Sunday morning, for day 2 of the yard sale. So far nobody has been by. Im hoping to get rid of most of the furniture thats left to sell. Im practically giving this stuff away. So we shall see.
Its been so hot here, there is a breeze blowing that feels wonderful.
Ah wow, how hard is that?
Maybe it becomes more and more clear to myself and others, why people think of moving away, starting a new life. People like my Ex and in Law are like a disease, infecting everyone around them. Here he is across the US, and she lives about 4 hrs away, yet they are chipping away at me and my world. Damn you both!
I spoke with 2 friends last night and they said how good the Psyc Evaluators are. How they can see past all the crap and lies. My sister went thru this with her ex also and they could see right away he wasnt all there.
I guess its like Does HE and his mother realize what a can of worms they are going to open for THEMSELVES? No I dont think so.
As my mother said to me last night. “Victoria these are not rational people, all this is about is THEM, trying to make themselves look good.” Thats all its about. Its not about the children at all. This is where children start getting used as pawns.
I have been talking to this guy online from a divorce board I met. He is an older wealthy man who is separated right now. And he has been on me big time saying things like this….
“remember it’s all about money when it comes to the guy in a divorce. He is now trying anything and everything to minimize what he will have to give you ,you may not like this but you really need to be the BIGGEST BITCH on the face of the earth during your divorce
May I say something without you getting mad at me?
Did I or did I not tell you to get a female attorney
everyone knows that when a guy starts his games the best way to put him in his place is to get a very aggressive female attorney. preferably one who hates men. I mean don’t give in to anything that he want’s. fight for everything regardless of how small the issue may be. Please don’t be mad at me. I am only trying to help in any way”
I do take his words, I cannot tell you why, as much as a pain in the ass my attorney is to get ahold of our his office staff. All of his reviews from people in court said he is cut throat and he wont take No for an answer. And nobody has said they have gotten screwed in court using him. My friend who is the baliff is the one who first sent me to him. And I guess the commonality of my christian faith, I cannot describe it to people, but I feel a connection with knowing that about him, that he has the Lord on his side also.
I do not look forward to going thru such a thing as what my ex may start. But I keep asking God, “Maybe this is what NEEDS to happen?” As painful and terrible as all of this will be, maybe this will have to pubilicly show my ex for what he is, let him hang himself by the collar, destroy his reputation, be publicly found out to be not all there, to be slapped in the face for everything he has done and owes to me.”
I WILL NOT BACK DOWN. HE WILL NOT SCARE AND INTIMADATE ME ANY LONGER INTO STOPPING THINGS.
I have stood my ground. Im doing a good job. He will dig his own grave, what comes around goes around.