No Visits with Dad

Dear Diary,

Well my Mom called me, my ex called her again to tell her what happened and what was going on.

He said his girlfriend had a boyfriend before him that was abusive and beat her.

Shes now on Prozac, well she had started talking to her ex bf and the cousin that stays with them a lot of the time ( a teen) got upset at the girlfriend for talking to the ex and they got in a fist fight on thurs night(which is why the ex didnt want the kids friday but didnt bother to say the place wasnt safe or didnt bother to go visit with his kids elsewhere)

But he said he just stayed out of it (Yeah right my ex is a jealous type, which I think is why he wanted me to drive over there on friday and all to make her jealous and have me around)

So ex claimed her teen got upset at her mom for talking to the old bf and went to stay with the cousin and said she was moving out, mom went and got her today, brought her home, they got in a fight and she hit her daughter. Thats when my ex phoned my mom. He hung up abruptly with my mom, my mom came and got the kids, well I guess in the meantime his girlfriend ran and grabbed a knife, ran in the bedroom and locked her door(ex said she cuts herself)

So thats when my ex called the cops, an amublance arrived and he told them what was up but I guess she was calm and that there wasnt really anything they could do (cause its just my ex making claims)

But I guess she agreed to go to the hospital, my ex said she needed to be evaluated, well she called him and wanted her ciggs, so he was driving with her 9 yr old to the hospital and then he finds her along the road walking home and tells her daughter to get out of his car and thats where he was left.

My mom told my ex that he needs to get out of there, that she has issues and that he needs to step out of it and he cant be the one to help, let her family help(my ex called her mom and the grandma was on her way out to come and check on the kids)

So hes saying hes gonna move and all. My mom asked if this ex bf is the kids father, he said no. So my mom said “Well then the father needs to be notified” Ex said “No the father is a loser, he doesnt have much to do with his kids” my mom said to me “Vicky I just sat there, I didnt say anything”

So My mom is all “He sounds really shook up”

Well my youngest has been worried now and called his Dad, he came in and said after hanging up “Mom, Dads not gonna move, his girlfriend is gonna get therapy”

Like all was well.

WTF?

And yes thank you for the comment. Nope the kids are not going to visit.

I am not sure what Im gonna do, meaning if Im just gonna say no to visits or pursue it legally right now, which Im so drained and not ready for, but I think I will just tell him straightforward I wont allow them to go visit and see him as long as he is living this way and really give him a talking to, if he gives me grief or fights me then I will go to court ASAP. But I can refuse to let the kids go see him, not like hes gonna take me to court, and even if he did I will just tell the court why I didnt let the kids go which I know will be fine as people I know have done it including my sis in her first marriage.

So yep, fun fun when your ex husband is a total clueless retard