Other Woman

Morning,

Was up late again last night. B and I were up reading over the phone till about 11:30pm.

I phoned my sister afterwards and we ended up talking till almost 1am, then I went to sleep.

She was writing an email to her husbands girlfriend.

I didnt know that 2 days after the whole thing came out the girlfriend emailed my sister and apologized, said she knew better, yada yada yada. I never knew that part transpired.

Anyways, I guess he doesnt hide his email account or delete messages or any of that so my sister can see all of their correspondence and on his text messages when hes asleep on his phone.

She wrote some stuff the other day saying “I dont want to be the “OTHER” woman” and all that garbage. But then my sister said obviously he spoke to her cause her text messages later on were full of “I love you babe”

Sister left a note for husband the other day saying “If your spending the night at your girlfriends please take the kids with you”

He came and asked her yesterday “What was your note about?” My sister said “Well since the teenager is spouting off the same shit to me that you do, you can take her with you” He got all quiet and said “Umm, ohhh, Ill talk to her” Sister said teen was fine after that.

So she basically wrote the woman an email telling her HER side and what has happened. Now Ive found out more of the deal with the business and why my sister is ticked off.

I knew that she and her bro in law were starting a business together, that Bro in law fronted the money, sister and he went to training in Utah( she found out about the affair the night she returned) The business has been established in my sisters name, they already spent money and got business liscense and all that and she had bought items to set up an office in their house and redid the office and all. So she is pissed that he very well had an affair, was wanting her OUSTED from his life and the house, yet very well knew she was started a business in the house and with his brother, and didnt be man enough to tell her before she did this. And the reason she was doing this business was so she could be with the girls full time and work at home also on the office end.

My sister also said last night that husband said he did talk to an attorney, but did NOT use the one he said he would. I guess they had 2 attorneys already, and they had to sign letters “Conflict of interest” since they have both used these attorneys in the past(Yes its messy) He was going to use my sister’s old attny when she divorced her first husband. She is using the attny that they used to get legal guardianship of the teen.

And with their jobs, the union pays for legal fees if you use attnys in the union.

So sister got started and all, he told her it was fine to use the attny but needs to sign a letter saying its okay since he knows both of them,

Ugh, confused yet?

Well he says he went to a different attny, one on his work route, and this guy isnt in the union, told him to tell his wife that he doesnt LIKE her attorney and can she use SUCH AND SUCH. My sister is all “What the fuck?” Here our jobs pay for the attorneys and you go and use some guy on your route who you will pay cash out of pocket for, and you want me to get an attorney HE WANTS?” She said No.

So he got all upset.

So my sister is to the point right now of literally just laughing at what is happening and what a retard he is.

Boy Oh Boy

Had class yesterday and we discussed some of the idea around my screenplay and another guys, involving demons and satan and all of that. Was a cool discussion.

And the teacher asks us about our weeks and spirals off with stuff we go through for story ideas. I mentioned my sisters situation and he went on quite a bit about that. How its basically a new idea these days that people marry for LOVE. That in the past generations it was more for partnership, financial, etc etc. But this idea of “Everyone deserves to be happy” is very new he was saying.

I was thinking about that some, thats why my sisters husband said “I have a right to be happy”

Then we talked about right and wrong, where is the line drawn, in each persons mind they feel they have a right to something, etc etc.

And it does make you wonder, the way we are now, can people stay commited long term since we live in a society of quick fixes to everything, if the relationship “Love” feelings arent there, do we just jump ship?

I had dinner at moms last night, the kids were being such pains, I was getting ticked and when we got home I wouldnt let them watch any tv. My Mom said “They are ready to go back to school” which this is the last week off track. They begin to get on one anothers nerves after being together all day for 5 weeks. At school their time is broken up all day with different classrooms and friends.

So they start getting a little bonkers and silly and annoying one another(and driving me bonkers in the process)

I got a call last night from the place I ordered the supplement from for ADHD type stuff, concentration probs. They wanted to know how it was working, etc, the lady was really friendly and told me how she was on antidepressants and she weaned off them and is only taking this product now.

I told her that I had trouble this month as the kids are with their Dad weeks at a time and I cant oversee him taking them twice a day. You are to take them 30 min before a meal also.

So I told her I will now get a better gauge with him taking it more consistant.

She was really sweet and cool. I did speak to my therapist monday also. Next wed night Im going to an orientation for children and therapy, then if I want to put my child in I sign up after the meeting. And my therapist said she would be the one to counsel my child if I sign him up. So thats cool.

I brought my tax papers with me today and the new DA packet and filled in what I could. I have to do a little more research on some stuff and make copies of things, I plan to send it out end of March.

And get that thing off my hands and turned over for them to chase my ex for support payments.

Ex told me hed get me money this week but I never believe him, Im surprised if he does.

He says it so often and doesnt come through.

I need money so bad, Ill have some come Saturday. I got $30 last night for a payment but I immediatly put it on my cable bill today that is overdue.

Overall things are good, my screenplay is coming together, class is fun, only 6 of us were there this last time. Its cool, I enjoy it and you feel so close to your classmates since we share our stories and the class is small and we have so much dialogue and exchange.