Gym Dudes

Dear Diary,

Well just had some Lasagna. Ahh my tummy. 🙂

Its quiet, with my little one in trouble and confined to his room and no playing its quiet here, but hes in the bathtub at the moment. Then he will eat dinner then straight to bed lights out.

Well my ex wrote an email saying he cant take the kids on his night that is written up in our agreement he is to take them (paperwork says pick kids up from school and keep them until following morning and take them to school.) Last week he wrote and said he couldnt. I asked if we needed to change the paperwork. He said No, that it wouldnt happen this week. So this time he writes and says he cant take them and wants to just take them to dinner.

Which basically throws my mom back into the whole mix. I have class and am not home until after they are asleep. So she would be the one to watch them, do homework with them, bath time, etc. And that is only a 2 1/2hr time period to do all that before they go to bed, and then my ex wants to take them out?

My mom said “umm Victoria, thats a bit inconvenient for me and the children? I get to deal with all the work, and I am not okay with that” My mom would be left to handle it all. And she said “Victoria, how do we even know if he will get into town on time? Then wondering if he gets the kids or do I if he hasnt made it in town yet from his commute?”

So I wrote ex and said my mom said it was inconvenient for her. Its like I have to make arrangements when Im a parent if I cant be around, I just dont pawn it off on my ex, well hes not reliable anyways, but you get what I mean. My mom is like “We are catering to him again Victoria” My friend said “Id tell him either you adhere to the paperwork, or dont come get them at all” Ugh, I gotta get it changed! So who knows what he will write back, but realistically, Im NOT AROUND IM IN SCHOOL THAT NIGHT! So I cant be of much help, I get home after they are asleep, I need to know they are taken care of in the meantime.

Well onto rest of my day. Went to dentist, went pretty quick, one cavity, so I have to go back in 2 weeks to get it taken care of, but nothing major. They also gave me a discount since I have no dental insurance anymore. 🙂

I still had enough time to go to the gym afterwards. I also got my book in the mail today on finances by Suze Orman. So I took it along and read the first chapter while doing cardio. My gym buddy was there but was working with this other woman, so I was all reading my book. I like when I have someone to talk to when doing cardio, it makes the time fly by and I work harder. So Im at 18 min. I do 30 and Im like ugh, well remember that guy I wrote about just yesterday that is cute and made a comment about my buddy saying “I dont get it, what is it about that guy?” after he saw him talk to me across the gym?

Well this guy just finished cardio next to me, and the guy RUNS over and jumps on it. Im like swallowing hard. Cause he is pretty cute. And he immediatly says ” Ahh arent you supposed to OPEN the book?” and he glanced at my book sitting there. I said “Oh I already finished my chapter” and hes all I see. And he said “Ahh now you can create your own ending” and Im seriously just dying cause hes all talking to me today. Making small talk, and Im sitting there wanting to talk back but nervous. So we are just working out and quiet again, Gym buddy makes a face at me across the gym and points down since he saw I was reading and said “What no more reading?” mouthing the words, next thing you know the dude next to me points to my book on the stand to the buddy. So then buddy gets all silly and is pointing at the guy, then to me, then to the guy, then the guy says “hmmm what kinda book is it really?” I was laughing. Im like “Finances” hes all “Well finances and health are very important to a good life” but he flubbed with his words when he said that and says “Now if I can only speak clear English”

So it was so funny! So we ended up talking I didnt want to get off the damn machine and I was past the 30 min time you are to use one. So I asked him how much hes in the gym since hes always there. He tells me hes in there around 2-3 hrs a day 5 days a week. And is going through his whole work out routine, we just talked, it was kinda cool ya know? First time a guy I find attractive!

You know what it is though, he kinda looks like B. Except Older, but same body shape, same hair color and both receeding but cut short, and this guy is tattooed on his arms, (B’s are much nicer tho and sexier )

So he said goodbye to me as I got off finally.

Gym buddy came and helped me finish up some weights for my arms, and we talked, and then talked about ab work and my target areas.

Hes also going to help me with some assistance in areas with my ex, 🙂 So I have to email him some info tonight, and then we will talk some more.

Gym is getting kinda fun, my little social outlet I guess you could call it. And its just funny that Ive been there for years, but not until about a year or so ago did I actually TALK to people there. Its a smaller gym, so its more intimate and there are the regulars for the time of day that you just always see day in day out.

As I was leaving the gym the older Trainer dude was coming in, he had a sleeveless tshirt on and omgosh did he look good. THis guy has gray hair but he is so damn sexy, hes very young looking, great skin, baby face, and whats even funnier is I dreamt about him last night, so I just felt all funny walking out of the gym and him coming in. The dream flashed into my head! In the dream I hired him to train me and went out to meet him at his car in the gym parking lot where he proceeded to touch my chest and I said “What! You think Im paying you to do this!!!??” but then I just let go and let him touch me.

I told my GYm buddy who came walking out about my dream. Hes all “Alright! Im glad you are dreaming! But then he said “So that sounds like a cool fun dream, just go with it” I said “No I got upset with him” Hes all “Yeah you gotta stop that, your always seeing guys as bad guys”

Then I was off to get the kiddos. And here I am! 🙂 Im silly huh??