He Relationship Ready?

Dear Diary,

I just took one of these online Cosmo Quizzes. I took “Is he relationship ready”? and here is what I got…

Potential Paramour

One day he makes you feel like his It Girl; the next day, he forgets to call. What gives? He could be acting like a relationship yo-yo because he’s recently been burned and is wary about going any further. Or he just might not want to be exclusive.

But did you ever think that you’re the one giving off the can’t-commit signs causing the relationship stalemate? “You might not be exuding the positive vibe that says you want to take the relationship to the next level,” explains Daniel A. Goldfarb, Ph.D., coauthor of Red Flags! “The men you’re with begin to mirror the level of commitment you have.”

To ditch dating deadlock, you have to figure out if he’s the guy for you. Think about your time together: If you begin to realize he’s not gung ho about getting serious, give him the chance to convert. Continue being positive about the relationship by sending him clear “I want you” signals: Be more affectionate; fire off “thinking of you” emails at work. But also give him a deadline for becoming more committed, and rethink the relationship if he doesn’t start pulling his weight when that time comes. But hopefully that won’t be a problem, because if you make him feel special — and he wants to be with you — he’ll try his best to please you.

Interesting actually, helped me to gain a different perspective on things also. Some quiz responses can be so cheesy at times, but this one actually gave me some new insight.

Boyfriend should be home soon. I really have no idea when we will get to see eachother next with his work schedule. I dont think we go more than a week without time together, except for that time apart when I broke it off from Oct-Dec. But I still missed him like crazy and spoke on the phone.