Ok Beyond the YUCKY Stuff

Dear Diary,

Now that I got that crap written and out of the way from my last entry, onto other parts of my life.

Good news things!

1. Boyfriend got a new job today with better pay! So now the poor thing is working 3 jobs, this is a temp agency job, but the pay is good and he can still manage the 2 other jobs, but he may let one go, he said he will see. So I was happy for him, which means less time he will be home, but its ok, I understand it, and Im going thru so much now myself. I think to be honest if we had more time to be together it wouldnt be the best for our situations right now, in a way we do need space, but I sure do miss having him beside me at night the most. 🙂

2. Other good news, my sister did my taxes, and Im basically getting 5 mos worth of income back! WOW! So Im plotting what to do with the money n such. I could pay off the joint debts belonging to H and I, I can get the kids a playhouse for the backyard, one of those older kid ones made of wood sort of like a fort, with the swings and a slide off the side. Since they are getting older I would love to get them one like that. Also I can start a nice savings acct. And finish the small home repairs, get a lawn mower. Take care of the dental work for kiddo because who knows how long it will take to get my ex to get us back on the ins or if he will.

3. BAD NEWS, my mom informs me I have a water leak on the side of the meter going to my house, its gotten worse and is now overflowing, Damn there goes the tax refund to plumbing repairs!

4. Good News! At least I will have money to do it!

5. Good News!

I was at my parents house for dinner with the kids last night, my Dad overheard the plumbing issue, My mom is going to have their plumber come over to check it out and see about fixing it, they own rentals so they have a reputable guy. So my Dad says “We will pay to have the line replaced from the meter to the house. Now as far as having the whole house replumbed ( my house is from the 60s and its never had the plumbing replaced so my parents told me its going to go here anytime)So Dad says “When this divorce things is done, as long as he isnt coming back your ex, then we will replumb the whole house for you, but as long as its OVER, I dont want him coming back, we arent fixing the house up for him, its for YOU, so if hes gone, we will do it for you” and he said “Ok go on”

haha my Dad. I understand what hes saying, Its over for me, but they want to make sure I dont allow him back in again. So its a little incentive for me I guess, which Im like “Dad no problem, Im just waiting on attorneys”

I have counseling tommorow, I cant wait to go! 🙂