Weird things can Happen

Dear Diary,

Ahhh havent been able to sit at my desk yet. Days do fly by faster with what Im doing, lol I just go through diary early am writing is all. Im at lunch now, just ate my homemade enchilada leftovers, mmmmmmmmm.

SOOOOOOOO…

I had emailed B during work and said “Can you come over tonight, I would like to see” He wrote back “I can, and I will”

Well he called me while I was at the gym still, I phoned back and he said he was going to fight traffic and leave early to come up. Which meant around 5, he typically doesnt come up until after 8 or so.

And yes, traffic does suck.

Anyways, I made Enchiladas, and B actually had a smooth trip up and made it just in time for dinner! Woohoo. He came in and said “Here I got this for you” And it was my favorite new Gatorade flavor. 🙂

Kids were all happy the neighbor boy was home and at his house so I told B I wouldnt call them in to eat, let them play and they will come home when they are hungry. So B and I ate, it was weird seeing him, haha, I mean when you dont see one another in 2 weeks you notice changes, his haircut, he shaved all his facial hair off so it was growing back in but much more clean cut and less full.

We went to sit on the couch and talk after dinner, just BSing about stuff, I was all into the first day of Amber Frey on the stand in the Laci Peterson/Scott Peterson trial and all the stuff that came out in day one, so we were talking about that. The kids came in and were all “B? I didnt know you were here??”

Well, something weird happened.

My youngest says “Are you staying the night or leaving tonight? Are you coming back tomm?”

Oldest says “Can you come over on the weekend PLEASEEEEEEEEEEE???????” And youngest says to oldest “Why?” He says “Cause we dont have to go to our Dads this weekend remember, hes gone for a month”

I served them dinner, and B told them hed try and come over, that hes been busy packing and my youngest says “Yeah cause your gonna live with us” Im all OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO NOOOO. LOL I never told B I asked them their thoughts if B were to live with us. I never told the kids he was moving in, just asked their thoughts on it. So that was kinda awkward, so B and I went outside and I told him I had asked them about it,,, well next thing you know youngest is outside, wants B, dammit, lol I kept sitting to talk and the kids kept interrupting, but it was for B’s attention.

Youngest got his bike out, next thing you know the two of them are camped out on the concrete and trying to fix the chain and B is talking to him, explaining to him how the bike works, like detailed analytical techincal info, and youngest stayed, and listened, and kept asking questions, they talked about bikes, and skateboarding and safety and stories of crashing and B when he did as a kid.

I went and washed my Jeep. At first I wanted to shoo the youngest away, I wanted to see B! But then also realize part of the problem with our lack of time I do shoo the kids away cause I want to see him, thus preventing them much time around him. So I left them alone to see what would happen.

I washed the Jeep and Bs bug, since it was right next to mine getting all sprayed and the bug is fast since its small.

By the time it was done, they were still talking.

We came inside, and it was like the kids were just all over B to talk. We then hopped up to go to Wendys and get Frostys. The kids and B started talking video games, game after game, asking B, B would say what he knew, they all talked about games they liked, didnt like, characters. They were like competing for talking to B and just on a big roll. Now mind you, B didnt create this, he didnt set out to talk to the kids, the kids just seemed to come at him last night, And I have to realize, its probably been a month since they have seen him because they were gone with their Dad for two weeks and the last time he came over they were asleep.

It was just weird and nice. I was washing the Jeep and just letting them talk, and listening and smiling.

Then oldest says “Thank you Mom and B for the dessert” I told them B got it, my oldest got up from the table, walks to B and hugs him. B is all “Aweeee” Yes, he said Aweeeeeeeeeeee.

I finally had to shoo them off to bed.

Wild huh? More to write, but thats it for the moment.