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Dear Diary,

Its 3:15 am. Im awake now. I was asleep and my cell phone rang then my home phone. I thought it was B, to be calling this late… I answer the home phone and its Big Sister.. Im out of it but she just starts talking anyways, and I wake up, Im in shock, I just want to cry myself.

She has been on the phone with an old friend of her husbands for the past 3 or so hours since she called me.

MY NEPHEW WASNT LYING OR MAKING WHAT HE SAID UP.

SHe said my nephew said “Mom, he cheated on you, I thought you knew it” She said “Why didnt you tell me???” He said “Mom, I thought you knew with the way he talked about it to me so openly, hed tell me about women all the time he wanted to fuck, and Im sure he fooled around with men. I didnt think that was my place, I didnt want to get into your sexual personal life”

My sister said he finally said “MOM, get the fuck away from that man, if you dont believe me, call his Friend Bill”

So my sister called Bill. She said Bill denied anything for the first hour of talking, then after my sister relayed what has transpired. Bill said “Take him for all hes got, I mean it, and I will tell you why”

See as of a year ago or so, her husband cut the friendship off with this guy, but hes been around since before they met. He told my sister her husband has been fooling around on her the whole time hes been with her.

And he said “And I believe h e has a little sugar in his coffee” In reference to their being men also. But he did know about the women, he told my sister he even has a picture of her husband with one of the women and he told him he burned it, he said he lied and he still has it. He said that her husband said my sister was a bitch and a bad lay in bed and she wouldnt suck his dick. So the guy said “I believe him” But he said when he came to the house, he saw how my sister was, how nice she was to him and how good she was with his daughter.

My sister told her husband when they dated she was gonna leave him, she didnt want to play sitter to his daughter any longer and raise her, that they werent even married and he had the perks of marriage. Well he flipped out and threatened to kill himself in the garage, my sister wrestled the gun away and called 911. At that time he went ino the hospital. The friend said “He fucked a girl that worked in the hospital and then one of the other girls in the ward, after she was released he went and fucked her.”My sister remembers him going to her place, but he said that it was for a haircut.

He said to my sister numerous women and names, and my sister even knows and has met some of them. And they are dirty skanky women, so my sister said now shes even more scared waiting for the results of her AIDS test.

He told my sister they would sit at the house watching X rated porn when she was gone, when my sister came out here to visit me he would go and fool around and told him my sister was out here doing the same.

He was into spanking and handcuffs and really kinky stuff.

My sister said “NO?” He was gentle in bed, but never kinky. She said he would not let her do anything to him and he would not let her touch his ass or go near it nor would he ask for Oral sex from her”

I mean I could go on and on and on….

My sister is still in shock herself…

The guy was calling her back as he had to run to get cigarettes, and sister said she would call me back again.

She said “Victoria, I didnt know this man, did you see anything???”

I told her “No, sister, not that side” I told her that at first when I met him, I was married to ex husband then, that me and ex husband talked after we met him. I didnt like him. And the reason was, he came out with his air rifles or whatever and went out into the dessert to shoot dessert wildlife for the pure joy of killing animals. He bragged about killing rabbits, birds, turtles, you name it. And i found it cruel. Ive grown up around guns and have a father who hunts. But he hunts and eats it, not to just kill things. But her husband would come out and want to go find a dessert patch to just go an “KILL” things. And I guess after watching so many shows on criminals and crap, how they are with animals, h ave no value for human life, that aspect of him bothered me.

But it wasnt until the night her husband talked with me and was sympathetic and understood what my ex was doing to me and he was so supportive and would talk that I bonded with him, and this was actually after my ex and I separated I believe. And I had liked him ever since.

Man, I have to tell you, this is scary shit to hear.

My sister said how she had an uneasy feeling whenever she was away from him and called, and now she knows why. He was fooling around. How he went fishing alot and on trips with the guys, how he was probably lying, that may have been his cover.. or maybe there is male stuff going on.

And reason the male stuff came up, was because I told my girlfriend a month or so ago what was going on with my sister, and my friend said “Wow, he must be really fighting some heavy duty homosexual tendencies to react this strongly and act this way” I said “Huh? And laughed, and she said “No Im serious”

I even told sister that and we both went huh?

So she said the gay thing came up from both her son and her husbands old friend, and neither knew that the other had said this.

The friend said to my sister,,,, “Think about it! Look at him, he looks like his girl, his body, hes so thin (this guy is like 149 pds and tall) And his mannerisms, hes like a girl” And I told my sister, I would notice at times how he sat with his legs crossed, but never thought much of it. Cause well, he always represented violence, with shooting and video games, and guns, and male trips,,

The guy said “He bought that house for you, he even told me that, he wanted you for a babysitter”

And well, what changed? My sister took a night shift job and was not there in the eves anymore to be with the kids, and he found a replacement. He was now stuck home, not out messing around.

The guy is terribly sick.

My sister, wow,,,

Theres so much more I cant even think to type and we werent even done talking…