He called to Apologize
Dear Diary,
To the comment. Im not offended at all.
Gym Guy just phoned me, I answered, he said “I just want to apologize”
I said “For what?”
He said “The way I acted, Im just jealous, Its the New year and I figured youd want to start the New Year with the person you are starting out with”
I said
“Well to be told I have to have sex with you to show that I want to see you is NOT OKAY, Im a person and not an Object”
He said “Like I said, I just called to apologize”
I said “I dont know what else to say” He said “Have a good New Year”
and that was it…….
I feel so empty and numb, I just sit here and cant believe he said that to me last night.
Ex BF warned me, he told me that each time I state a boundary this guy ups his response, and that Im actually feeding his tactics when Im up front with him, that he uses what I say, but then turns around and does the opposite quickly thereafter.
I can understand hurt and jealousy.
I cannot understand demanding a person take their pants off and have sex to show you they want you and then leaving a person crying and walking when they say “No I dont want sex, I just want to be with you”
That is just not right, my mind cannot even fathom