Today is Better

Dear Diary,

Well today Im feeling a little better. I felt so bad last night for Boyfriend. The wind was blowing so strong and his little car doesnt do well in bad weather. When he arrived I just hugged him and said “Oh you didnt get blown away” He responded “Oh you have no idea” And told me that he hit fog and rain. Ugh on a dark mountainy road.

But he made it safely!

We just stood there and hugged, we laid down together, and I just got so sleepy right away! He was massaging my lower back, thighs, butt all that and I was in heaven and I just started to drift off. I opened my eyes and he was just laying beside me with his eyes open looking at me. He said “Darling you need rest, just go to sleep its ok” He has this way of saying Darling that comes out Darlin, and I just love the way he sounds when he says it.:::fanning eyes feeling all sentimental:::

So today I drove to attorneys office and turned in info and also a letter of complaint at how they have handled me there. When I arrived the receptionist says “Oh we just had a update to your file” I was like “Oh do tell?” She says “Oh we got your Exs address” Im like “WHAT???????” So needless to say I was once again pissed off by the office. I gave the paralegal the new address in January to send the paperwork to his work. And Ex has said he never recieved anything, and with him you dont know whether its a lie or truth. So I looked at the receptionist and said ” I GAVE THIS ADDRESS TO YOU GUYS” turns out Ex called attorney office himself this AM and gave them the correct address. Wow doesnt that make me look on the ball!

So I was upset about that. But I got everything in and have meeting with attny on 21st.

I then tackled the mother in law issue with help from a few people at work. I opted to do it via email. And basically it said this…

“I have had concerns and not felt comfortable with the children around ****. Ex expressed this same concern to me after he dropped them off for the New Years visit and we discussed together during New Years that we didn’t want the kidss staying anywhere with *** any longer without one of us present. I just do not feel comfortable with it, I do not mind having you over to the house for visits or to even come and stay during Easter with us. You are always welcome to come and stay at the house. If you have any further questions you can talk to Ex about it.”

Thanks, Victoria

I mailed a copy to myself and the Ex along with Mom in Law. Co worker said this way everyone gets a copy. You address the fact that Ex and you talked about this, and then state that this is YOUR decision, and then put it back in your Exs lap if she wants to ask more about it. Since my Ex avoided even discussing the issue with me. So tadaa, now we will see if I get any responses from either party.

So for now I guess Im on top of everything. My parents are going to visit my sister this weekend and taking everything for income tax. My sister is an accountant so she will handle it all for me. So I sure hope Im getting some money back. Im sure I will just have no idea how much! I could greatly use it right now.

So its friday, I have counseling after work today. Then go home with the kiddos.

Not sure if im going to the Roomates dinner event tonight yet. We shall see.