Response

Response to comment…

“well. . . he could just move and wouldnt have to commute.”

If he moves here he would still commute to work all week from here. He already looked into the company out here that he works for and this branch isnt what he does where he is at. Its a totally different facility, There is a vanpool in our area to his place of work in the Valley he found out. Still just the daily drive, man that sucks, even if hes along for the ride.

“about your sisters ex- part of me thinks maybe this has been going on longer than she knew about. then again, i remember how my ex was when he met **** same thing. such urgency to have her meet my son and for them to get a place together. . . part of it i think is the excitement of a new relationship, the other part is pure, unadulterated selfhishness and lust”

You know I try to think of it like when I met Cute Gym Guy. I immediatly had him around the kids and really thought this was gonna be “IT”

But then again I wasnt married to, nor did I live with or near B. And B and my kids did not have a strong bond nor did he play a role as a stepfather, etc.

And about a month into it I had a WOA, what am I doing and slowed things down, I know it felt really good for a little bit, but then reality set in for me.

I wasnt ready to up and marry, heck I wouldnt even commit as the guys girlfriend, but I can see how the rush can take one over to a certain DEGREE.

Eeeeks though, but yes its probably been going on longer then thought. We expect that much….