He brought the Woman!??
Dear Diary,
Okay so now im more pissed off.
By the way Cute Gym guy called to frickin tell me “I found out why Im so horny all the time, the normal males range for their testosterone is 241-827. Im at 980, thats why Im so horny all the time, then he was wanting to tell me what the females range was, Im at work, talking to my sister and to him and I could give a shit what a womans hormone range was.
He apologized for scaring me calling me saying he had blood results tests to share with me, that he didnt realize how that came out.
Okay, so Im pissed because…
Well heres my sisters words……….
This just happened……
“Sister:Husband showed up here with his grlfriend and all her kids, at first i just thought it was him and the girls, but then i saw he had the herd with him, i told husband he had alot of nerve……. and also told the teenager that i was going to protect her from all of this, but she thinks everything is ok, i went out and spoke with his girlfriend , told her she also had alot of nerve coming here , & that she and i needed to speak, that this was not ok what my husband was doing with the children & that we both have a responsibilty as guardians to the teen … she is a haggeredevverild old woman….. she looks like she is 48 not 38………she just said ok, then i told husband to get his fuckin ass out of the house ……….. and slammed the door behind him…. i think he was a little bit shocked i dont care i hope i ruined their day just a little bit, his girlfriend looked a little bit shakey and scared , since i did not raise my voice …
Me: Ugh
Sister: are you there..
Me: yes Im here, are you okay?
Sister:I AM FINE.. THANK YOU
Me: It just pisses me off
Sister: WHY DOES THIS PISS YOU OFF ? TELL ME YOUR FEELINGS, CAUSE RIGHT NOW… I DONT HAVE ANY ABOUT THIS WHOLE THING I AM IN A CONSTANT STATE OF SHOCK
Me: It just pisses me off that here you are there and he just keeps his little thing going more and more and doing more and more with no regard.
Sister: YES , I UNDERSTAND , BUT THIS IS HOW IT HAS BEEN SINCE I FOUND OUT…..
Me: If you even called Teens social worker right now and told them the situation would they even want her with you guys?
Sister: I DID CALL THEM , THEIR IS NOTHING THEY CAN DO, I WOULD NEED TO TAKE HIM TO COURT…….
Me: court for?
Sister: SO WITH ALL THAT IN MIND…. COURT FOR… HIS BEHAVIOER AND THE BEST INTEREST OF TEEN……I
Sister: I LOOK AT IT THIS WAY,,,,,,,, I WILL TRY , BUT I WONT FIGHT IF I AM ADVISED AGAINST IT …….
Me: I dont now how to feel, I just get so mad, I just at times think some of us should get together and move you out of there,,, the rest can be dealt with in court,,, I just dont see how this is good for your mentally to be in the midst of this daily
Me: I know you need to see an attny, Im just expressing my feelings at this very moment
Sister: Husband , JUST HAS ALOT OF NERVE…. YES , THAT IS THE ONLY THING I CAN DO IS SEEK LEGAL ADVICE FIRST , BEFORE I TAKE ANY STEPS…..
BLAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
I just called my Middle sister and asked her how often shes talked to big sis, and told what happened. Im just getting concerned here. My middle sis went through a lot with my big sis when she left her first husband. I wasnt going through all that with her and coming over like my other sis was.
She said “Vicky, I talked to her the other day and I am in constant contact, when she went thru the stuff with the first husband she couldnt function, she couldnt work, she just wanted to run from everything, so I think she is doing okay”
She said something is very wrong with the husband, and nobody gets it, but its really wacked out….
Adored, I did get your comment, I dont mind forwarding anything you want to say to my sister if youd like, you can email it to me or post it private in my comments…