Flakey Men
Dear Diary,
Ok I swear is it just my luck here? Is it something Im missing? Or am I just good at picking men who have this in common?
Mr C left and said hed come back and hang out with us today, to just call him. So I do. No answer and I leave a message. Me and the kids headed for the mall. He called while I was there, hes with some buddy of his who needed to take his car to the shop. I was in the midst of going in a store and asked if I could call him back in a few minutes. He said sure. Well lets see that was about 5 hrs ago? I called back no answer. I tried one other time and just get the voice mail so I left a message saying “Were you going to hang out with us today or not?”
Still no word from him.
I then find emails last night and this AM from B. This am he tells me what time hes going to work, what times hes off and even leaves his work number! BUT, hes been invited to this place way before I even left. I even told him the other day when I said I just want to date and not be exclusive that he can call me and say Hey can I come over? Which the invite has always been open. He mentioned trying to come out today. But once again I have guys in my life who are good at saying they want to do something, yet when it comes down to it they up and flake without any explanation then call me later as if nothing went on? I personally find it rude. Why cant B call me for goodness sake? I wrote him back and said its fine to call me late, he said he wasnt sure if that was appropriate now and I told him it was fine.
Its like I have to baby guys into seeing me, they leave me hanging in limbo, then once they are around when its convenient for them. I guess it goes back to planning. I like to plan. Ugh, so no word from either.
I went and got the times for the roller rink. Id really like to go tonight and Mr C said hed love to go. B got an anal about it saying he wouldnt go and he wouldnt dare use skates that werent his and his are busted.
Bleh,
I drove up PCH today and drove through Malibu. It was nice, we might just head to the beach tommorow instead of Sunday, maybe Ill just head home early on Sunday to unpack and do laundry and straighten up again before the work week. The guy who asked me about going on his boat, the one Ive known for 6 yrs was home bored on the 4th and I invited him over to hang out since hes nearby, he said No it wouldnt be a good idea cause hed be too tempted around me and didnt want me to have to deal with telling him knock it off. ::Sigh:: Cant I just have a guy friend??????????