Holy Crap D
Dear Diary,
Okay so D ended up calling on my cell again, twice. I finally answered. Told her that I cant help her. She needs professional help, that she keeps going thru this cycle, week on week off. She kept wanting to talk about her husband and him talking to a woman online. I said “D, it will be another issue next week, you have to decide whats acceptable for you” She said “I wanted to see if you could go out to a restaraunt tonight but I dont think you want to go” I said no and I cant help h er, she needs professional help.
She went on about how she cant afford it, no insurance. I repeated to her about the Domestic Violence outreach that is free and counseling there and that she doesnt even take the number from me(which she didnt again)
She just kept going back to the same ole crap. I said I had to go.
Well about 45 min later she called and left a message on my home phone asking if we can help her move this weekend.
Then about an hour ago the home phone rang, then cell, then home phone again. Its her as her number is on my cell.
My mom told me tonight to cut it off with her, dont talk to her much at all, if I do speak tell her “I cant help you, I have enough going on in my life” and I really dont doubt that she may show up at my front door, My mom said “Dont let her in if she does”
My mom said she sounds a little scary and shes demanding. Telling me to come over, or B to come over or for us to help her move.
So I have sent B out tonight to get the dang salsa for my sons school stuff and laudry soap and all. I just sat there and told him I need help and Ive done enough today. Work, moms house to take her present and the store to buy it, pick up both kids, the bank, Dealing with D, making dinner for everyone, dealing with homework issues with the kids, sitting here Im just done today. I told B I needed help so hes off at the store doing what he should be doing. HELPING.
Im sad in some ways my friend is flipping out…. 🙁
But I cant deal with this…..
My mom said a screw is loose, when B left he said “Theres the hammer, use it if need be if she shows up” LOL