Oh No my Sis

Dear Diary,

Okay I have a lot to write. But I have to leave in a bit to get oldest to the bank as we are going to open his bank account.

I called my big sister on the way home, my nephew answered. I havent really spoken to him much. First off I havent seen him in a few years. Hes been in and out of jail and mental hospitals. She told me last week how good hes doing, how his disablility got set up. And just kept saying hes doing SOOOO GOOD.

Well my nephew sat there when I asked if sis was there, said he wanted to make a comment, but refrained. Hes all “Vicky there is just a conflict of interest, my mom needs to get a life, go date, get a boyfriend, stop hanging out at home”

Oh boy, he starts telling me how he hasnt had sex in 3 yrs, how he hasnt had the opportunity, how he met this girl.

Ugh..

Okay my nephew is about 25 now I believe.

So he basically brought some girl home to sleep with her, my sister go pissed and kicked the girl out of the house. My nephew was all upset at his Mom because of the girl being troubled and hes afraid she will sell her body to get some cash. UMMMMMMMMM HELLO!

I just sat there. My nephew is not doing good.

I dont know if my parents know hes staying there, I havent said anything, but I know they would be pissed off, My parents have the house in their name and bought it for big sister.

And my nephew has been an ongoing issue. It was in her marriage, with her husband, etc. The police were called, a restraining order was done, my nephew went into a hospital cause he set a fire in her backyard and endangered himself(not only him but all of them) He slept in the garage on the floor, he slept in the desert next to the house.

Anyways, its just a touchy issue, my middle sister helped big sis last time to break free of him as nephew lost his apartment by foolishly taking off out of state with some dude and then got stuck with no place to liev and kept calling home. My middle sis began to intercept the calls, tell him it was time to stop and had to just push my sister aside, she just couldnt do it and it was messing with her head.

So now here we are, B said “Why did she even tell him where she lived?”

Well being Mom and being my sister, its her kid, I know she feels for him and I bet thought once again it would be different, especially without having the 2 girls and a husband. But now its just her, and hes still pulling shit. I want to tell my Mom. But then I dont. I feel its come to a point where my sister is just bullshitting everyone, and my nephew can bring harm into the house or do damage, not only to her and her home, but my sisters own mental health too.

Anyways,,, just had to get this out…..

I will write more later.