Things to Come…

Dear Diary,

Morning :::yawnnnn:::

So sleepy this AM.

I was up late, cleaning my office really good, and moving stuff around, took stuff to the garage, vacuumed. I have a black widow thats camped out and Ive not been able to catch her. She spins her web through all of these toys collectors around a table i have in there. Ive cleaned the web up several times but she keeps putting it back. Im going to have to remove everything and turn the table upside down to get rid of her.

So I was up awhile online, my ears listening for B’s volkswagon, as I know the engine sound coming down the street. It was a little after 11pm and still nothing. I finally shut off the house lights, computer, and got into bed.

I had told him Id understand if he didnt want to drive back out, He kept insisting otherwise, and left his stuff and said hed carpool with the coworker.

Well last I heard from him was 6:15pm. I laid in bed and it was midnite, no call or anything, made me start to wonder what was up. Even if he wasnt coming he isnt gonna call to tell me? And I guess I generally have stopped getting my hopes up and expect him not to come through.

I couldnt sleep. I tried calling his home phone but no answer, so I knew he wasnt there yet.

Well guess who pulls up about 1am? Yep! I was all “Omgosh wow, he drove back”

He crawled into bed, was happy to see me but tired. Luckily he napped on the way back from the beach in the guys truck. He said not that many people showed up, they went to the gym, hung out, played frisbee, roasted marshmellows. He said everyone said to tell me hi and the guys teased him on the drive when he called me to say “I love you” and said he was Pussywhipped. To which he replied “Die and go to hell, fuck you all” ( I overheard part of this on his message he left on my voice mail but couldnt make out what the guys were saying)

I know both guys, they were just ribbing him. They all know me. Both guys used to flirt with me and have known me and talked way before there was ever a B and I. When B and I began to date he said his work out buddy would Cry when he found out we were dating.

Its funny to think back, how my ex husband went out with me and the guy D who drove used to do things with us, we all even met up at Dennys a bunch of us and the kids were small and B’s bud was there. Sooo sooo long ago. Wowie.

B and I had talked a little bit the earlier part of the weekend when I was crying and we had our “Talk” after the graduation party that day.

He had said if he were to move out here, it would be silly for him to pay for a place and I agree with him, as he would hardly be there or hed be with me or at my house.

Should we live together? I dont know, I do know Id have to really lay down some guidelines, cover the bills, chores, expectations we both have, food and all that.

Lay it all out before hand.

I know it would help us both out tremendously financially.

Hes paying over $650 to rent a room. Except the benefit is hes about 5 min from his job.

But he told me he doesnt really mind the commute if there is a van pool or carpool. That he can kick back, relax, sleep, read, and it will give him time to unwind on the way home also.

So he wouldnt have to worry about driving all the time or his car and all that stuff.

He carpooled this AM and the woman was literally 5 min from my house. Plus they can hit the carpool lanes. He was able to leave at 5:30 am as opposed to 4:30 this morning.

I pay $567 a month for a mortgage, so for us to split that would be awesome, plus utilities and all that to split, he already does that at his other place and they have central Air which is expensive and my bill is nothing like that.

Id have financial help, hed be here more on a regular basis. I know he would need to get to bed early week nights. Im cool with that, as it was the same way with my ex husband as he commuted. Just the problem with that was my ex husband got mad that I didnt go to bed early with him and threw fits over that. I dont really see B being that type.

I could even go to the gym later, I used to go nights when I was married, and that would put me in the gym at a different hour then You know who which would be better.

I was also thinking of talking to B, Hes making a decent amount of money, getting a raise, and has talked about saving, but I know he just needs a nudge, we could set up a savings plan idea, help get some of his goals out on the table and I can help him set up a game plan and open up a savings acct. He doesnt have one.

Anyways, poor guy got in around 1am and was up at 4:30 am hitting the shower, hes gonna be tired tonight, but it will be nice to have him there.

Will see what is to come…..

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