Weekend Pt. 2

Dear Diary,

Okay so on we go……

Sunday eve I got my period which I totally wasnt expecting, a week earlier, but I tend to do that often.

Only symptom I had was the breaking out, I didnt have the emotional crying, headache and horniess prior as usual. But then again B came over and took care of that before I had the chance right?

So Sunday night, hes laying in my bed watching tv, I was up with the kiddos and then laid down when I was done working on the report. So B likes to watch, Cartoons, those car programs and choppers and all those, or putting together cars, he also likes the Simpsons, Chapelle show and South Park, and he likes history channel and all those but typically on items I can snooze a little over, even though I like them too hes just more technical, gadget oriented is all. And I dont fault him for that.

So I laid down and hes watching this comedy channel cartoon show, forget the name, but I dont care for it, its a bit out there, and just really not funny to me. So I watched a little and said “Do you really like this?” And he said Yes and then changed through the channels, and then held up the remote and just dropped it from his hand onto me laying next to me and said “Here you can pick something” that irked me, that he just dropped it on me. I said right back “Okay tell me, how would you recieve this better” and I dropped the remote on him and said “YOu can pick a channel” And then I repeated and handed it to him and said “Here hun, you can pick something else” he replied “Oh Oh, okay huney, since I cant find anything to watch and you have such better television programming choices then I do, you go ahead” and I just sat there, it was condescending sounding. I was all “Whats up with you?” He said ” Nothing? What do I have to sound happy and act like mr Snuggle bear all the time?” I was all????

I said “Well why did you talk to me like that and drop it on me? And hes all “Vicky, Jesus Christ, you want to make this into a big deal?”

At that point I just got up and walked to the living room. I was already crying.

I just sat there and wanted to cool down, I didnt get what was up and his tone and body language and I didnt want to go any further to escalate anything. All I was trying to say was dont drop the remote on me, and dont talk condescending to me.

Also with the PMS thing I knew I was even more emotional then the normal so I just took some deep breaths and and sat on the couch a bit.

I came back to the room a bit later, he just shut out the lights. I said “I need to be able to talk to you” and he said “you can” He said he was trying to be cute with his comment about my better programming and redo the way he handed it to me. I said “It came out sounding condescending, because you know you dont find my tv programing to be superior to yours” He laughed and I said “WELL IM RIGHT ARENT I!!??? Dont bullshit me” And he was laughing and I was poking at him, he just pulled me close and hugged me. I said I wasnt trying to make it into an issue, just saying I didnt like something was all.

We curled back up, and went to sleep.

So we got up the next day, well I woke up about 5am with cramps. AHHH JOY! Going to the beach on the first day of your period, what timing eh!

But luckily my heaviest day is usually day 2, so I didnt think it would be too bad, well I went back to bed and was up 2 more times, my stomach, grrrr, cramps and all. So figured its best I spend it in the bathroom all AM instead of out at the beach you know(and thank goodness for that, but more on that later!)

So I got up, showered, shaved my legs and all that good stuff, got things packed, woke B up, had some breakfast, and got on our way by 10am.

The weather was warm, we stopped at the ATM and I was gonna grab some cash and instead B just went to get cash himself from his account and took charge there, 🙂

So we had a drive ahead, it was warm and I cant wait to get my AC fixed as its so noisy driving with all the windows down, hard to talk, listen to music n stuff.

But it was okay, we stopped off at a little outdoor market and got some Banana Chips, Almonds and Licorice for snacks.

We went to Ventura to my favorite spot to take the kids, (Park, Beach, Playground) all compacted into one small beach spot in a beach home community.

So you can eye your kids easily as everything is close to eachother.

It was packed, we had to park a ways for the first time.

B let us out and went to park.

I went to the bathroom first, so all they have is a 2 stall ladies bathroom for this beach, and the first line took forever. But I HAD TO Go you know, girl stuff.

Then we went and set up our spot, we stayed about 4 hrs. Oldest played in the water, I went in part way, B and youngest were all over the rocks as B made him a coathanger hook this time to catch the crabs in between the rocks, And my youngest caught 3! He was so excited(hes tried many times and never succeeded)

So B even was out there with him, they were cute to watch.

We just hung out, laid around, talked, and then he laughs as we are laying there, and I said “What?” hes all “Nothing” Im all “tell me” Hes all “No” and I pried at him and teased him for acting shy. Anyways, he was having some sexual thought and question so he finally put it out there and we had a talk about sex stuff all on the beach, which I dont mind. 🙂 Hes just funny sometimes like that, coming at something all shy.

I then headed up to the bathroom again, OMGOSH the line took forever, I cant even imagine how it would be going there with an upset stomach and needing a restroom. Id have died. It took like 30 min or so to go use the restroom!

We then headed home, stopped in B’s old town and by his old roomates house and visited briefly and discussed us all getting together for a weekend soon for dinner, So maybe in 2 weeks. Then we stopped by our fave restaraunt and picked up Pasta to go! Yummy! And B got the kids McDonalds.

So I asked B if hed drive the rest of the way, I was tired.

We got home and we all had some level of sunburn and I was starved, so B and I came in and had the pasta, YUMMMMMMMYYY I was scarfing it down.

I guess I missed the sunblock on my upper legs on teh front, der??? So Im burned right there, and a little on my driving arm and nose and forehead, but otherwise Im okay, B got it to his forehead mainly, and my oldest to his shoulders, so we were all came home, hit the shower one by one then did the Aloe Vera gel. Ahhhhhh, B and I were so beat last night in bed, with the Cooler going and the cieling fan and just laying naked. Nothing like a day in the sun to wipe you out.

B also told me on the way home, he has a coworker that lives near my house, and older woman with a daughter thats about 10 and she even said she would babysit if we ever needed it. So B said “I hope thats not weird to you as you dont know her, but she did offer and of course youd have to meet her sometime” I said that was cool and that was very nice of her. Sure Id meet her.

So next weekend is Traffic School, mom is going to watch the kids for me.

And Friday is my manicure/pedicure after work, Have to see if mom can pick up the kids from school as Ill be done about 15 after they get out, so I dont think that will be an issue.

Hard to believe school will be out! The 18th is there last day.

So my gym time and after work schedules will be a little screwy until they start back up again August 1st or whenver is the first Monday of Aug.

Ex will have them 2 weeks during the off time, and Im supposed to have the 4th of July to myself, B and I are going to Santa Barbara, and I SOOOO am looking forward to that!

Also his Bday is coming up first week of July, and I dont know what to get him!

Batting around ideas but most of mine are expensive, sooo we shall see.

Later!