Plot Thickens

Dear Diary,

Well,

What a day huh?

I finally talked to my Middle sister after work.

Told her what was up and wanted her feedback and her first response was “Victoria, I have been going through a lot with her myself, a lot of things Im beginning to discover, Big Sister doesnt give the full story on things, she leaves stuff out, I have a feeling her life and her marriage were nothing like the way we live.”

See my sisters grew up close, I didnt bond with them really until my separation with my ex. Since Im so far apart in age, but my sisters have been close.

My middle sister said she is upset that my sister hid the marriage from her. She is upset that my Big sisters son has been in a local hospital since January and my big sister never told middle sis, but just said he was fine,( hes bipolar) and my Big sister has complained about how the family does help or care about him.

Middle sis said she also thinks the Bro in Law and Big sis were having an affair and thought that was what happened in the marriage when she first called with her husband having an affair. My middle sis has also told her she shouldnt go spend the night over at his house.

She has tried to go and visit big sister and shes been evasive, avoiding visits.

She said that she knows we have all been cutting her slack due to the situation but my middle sis said theres been stuff going on before this, going back to her first husband, that her first husband kept wanting to kiss middle sis and french kiss her and said this in front of his wife. And my big sister would say “Go ahead if you want, I dont care”

It irks me, as Ive told my big sister how my ex was abusive sexually, and then she invited him last year to move in with them? And then this? How she called me but then never called me back sat night and I tried phoning her cell and she and i talk at night so much. Makes me wonder if anything did happen with my ex as hes such a horn dog who wont say no.

My middle sister is also disgusted at how Big Sister has been about the 2 kids, which yes that has been on my mind as of late how she refers to them like the adults and shes just done with them and writing them off.

How she never answered the social worker calls after the day she called them, they were calling her back but she said they didnt care so she didnt care to answer the phone.

It just goes on and on, she said she doesnt think the story of their marriage ending is the real story, etc etc…

Im just saddened, but my Mom and middle sister told me I need to tell her what she did was unacceptable to me and hurtful.

So I will….

What is wrong with my sister? Scary to think back how she was pushing so hard for me to go out with the Bro in Law. How shes got this whole thing with family and the men….

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