He cant make it Again

Dear Diary,

:::sigh:::

Well B said he didnt know he had to work yesterday that they didnt inform him, So its like friday Im sad he isnt up whiles hes free, He says “Im coming tomorrow and spending the rest of the weekend with you” Then Sat he said he gets a call didnt realize he was scheduled to work. So he then comes up in the AM and stays till he has to go to work, says he will get in around 1 am but will drive up to see me Sunday.

Sooo, I talk to him online around 11am. Hes just hanging out. I didnt question him about what time he was coming. So finally around 1pm he mentions that he will be out later. Like around 5 or so cause he has laundry to do and stuff to clean up. I pull out the ribs to make for dinner. I was bummed he wasnt on his way sooner since I havent had much time with him but he tells me he will stay the night also.

About 3pm he calls said he got a call that they want him to work tonite. And is it ok with me? Whats my thoughts on it?

What do I say????

I said “I cant make that decision for you” he said “I want your opinion on it, since I said Im coming to spend time with you, but I really need the money” Which Im totally aware of and can relate to right now. At the same time, when on earth do I get to see him? And why is it everything is on the constant not knowing basis for him? Like he doesnt know hes working so often? And he gets last minute calls so often like this?

So he said he will come up after work tonite. Which will be after 11pm. Sure I will get to see him, but this weekend had nothing I expected. Well from what I was iniatially told by him, it changed each day to not happening or less. I just said “I understand about the work and money, but on friday when you had time and didnt come, or today the fact that you could have came out early and spend the day, you know?”

I dont know how to respond to this.