Fit Thrower

Dear Diary,


Well I had the meeting today with the other Attny mine told me to speak to regarding this issue. He informed me a lot of things about Court and what will occur, which was nice to know. 🙂 He also said he will be there right alongside my attny during it to hear all of this. Cool.


He basically told me on how to deal with the issue at hand. His visitation this weekend. Making sure they dont end up at In Laws. So he said to have a letter written stating he will not take the kids to her home during his visit and have it signed by him. He said that way if he does it he will screw himself. And if he refuses to sign it, then dont let the children go.


Ex called a little bit ago, He wanted to see about getting the kids earlier then stated. I told him that first off I will need the letter. And here is what transpired.


Me- “I need you to write a letter stating you wont take the children to your mothers during the visit”

Him-“If you want a letter you have your attorney call my attorney!”

Me-” Im telling you, I dont mind you see the children, I just dont want them at her home, so I need a letter stating you wont or else I cant let them go”

Him- “I promise you I wont take them there!”

Me- “Then whats the big deal just write me a letter saying so”

Him- “NO! Who says you should do this??? Why isnt your attny returning my attnys phone calls! If you want a letter you have your attorney call mine! You better not keep me from seeing the kids!”

Me- “I didnt say you cant see the kids, I said give me a letter and its no problem. We dont have a visitation agreement at this time, so I need a letter from you”


He refused and got all angry and I just let it go. So what? This is how he always responds. Over reacts to stupid things. My mother said “Its because he wants control and doesnt want to be told to do anything” Its just so ridiculous. So I figure let him go throw his tantrum. If he really thinks hard and gets some advice he will write the letter. Otherwise I will have to keep the kids with me. Which they really are looking forward to the visit. But if he is acting like this, and wont promise this to me, then sorry”


Its getting almost laughable anymore. This attny who works with mine said “From everything you have just told me, you do not have a THING to worry about in court ok?”


I hear everyone say this, I need to see it to believe it I guess. But I need to change my attitude and be more positive and believe in it dont I? Its part of what my life was like. This is a thing Im working on within myself. Treating myself better and giving myself more credit, believing in the truth”

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