What a #*(#*%&!

Dear Diary,


As the day goes by and I reflect on this proposal from my ex. Well its dawning on me more and more. He doesnt care about me and the kids. He wants me to purchase his equity, and if I do not he wants me to sell it.


As boyfriend said to me when I read this..


“Victoria, he just wants you out of the house. He knows you cant pay him $12,000, and so then that would mean you would be forced to sell it. What he doesnt realize is this is the HOME for your children, you take care of them and they live with you, and for you to move out you would have to move into housing that would cost more and in turn would affect your income drastically and change child support amounts”


You know I didnt want to buy the house for this very reason. My ex was pushing and pushing with this house and our marriage was on shaky ground. We got the most fabulous deal, we bought a year before the prices went up around here. My mother and sister even sat down with my ex to have a talk with him because I was too afraid to close the deal. They said “What if you 2 dont work out?” What will you do then?” He said “Oh no Victoria can have the house”


My ex and I lived here together a total of 1 yr before he moved out. The mortgage payments are affordable enough for me to make them on my own, and are cheaper then a apartment. I have a 4 bedroom, 2 bath house for $569 a month. Just to rent a 2 bedroom apartment it would cost me over $700 here.


What a bastard, Im anxious to see my attorney.

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