Ex, In Laws, Divorce BLAH!

Dear Diary,


Im upset right now! ANGRY AND SAD mixed. So this is a total venting entry.


WHY DOES MY FUCKING EX GOTTA BE SUCH A STUPID IDIOT!????


Its like I have to totally fucking juggle all this mess and Im the one who has to keep it together, be level headed.


Im sooo tired. I wish he could just be civil! DAMMIT we have kids, pull your head outta your ass and think of them OK? And stop playing your games!!!


I had to talk to my Mom in Law today and the dreaded Easter visit was said to my youngest. The Ex and I agreed at Christmas that the children would no longer spend the night with his mother and her troubled roomate. For fear of this girl harming our children. Its a long story but its a situation that has been a long time coming. My Mom in law has a girl my age who is mentally troubled living with her. She bypassed the client counselor relationship and got involved and has this girl living with her, and has been for years. To sum it up, she is jealous of anytime we get with Mom in Law and acts up. As far as attempted suicide because several years ago his Mom took her home to spend time with us.


Well now the girl lives with her and attends every family function and we just dont trust her. I always tried to be the forgiving peacemaker when the Ex was ready to write his Mom off. Hes been so hurt by her behavior and neglecting him and us.


So the counselor said my Ex should tell her. So it comes from her own son and not just the Ex. Well the Ex called while I was talking to Mom in law and I asked I decided to go out on a limb and attempt a convo with my Ex tonight.

STUPID MISTAKE.


He told me to stop making up my own rules and if i want to talk to him to email it and then demanded he talk to the kids. I lost my composure of not entertaining any convos with him and just said “IM SICK AND TIRED OF HOW YOU TREAT ME, MEDDLING IN MY LIFE, I WANT YOU TO STOP IT” I then said he could call back in a bit the kids and I had dinner on the table. He then said “SOOO ARE YOU SAYING I CANT TALK TO MY KIDS!!!” I said “No You can call them back after dinner” he kept on so I had to hang up. It was just not a time for anyone to talk and to be honest the way he was sounding I wanted him to calm down before talking to the children.


Im sorry but my Ex is a fucking asshole and right now I just wish I had never gone back on the initial papers. Restraining order, me having sole custody,


I JUST WANT HIM TO SHUT HIS MOUTH AND LEAVE US ALONE!


So now I gotta go and play the bad guy and tell Mom in law NO to the children visiting. Im thrilled cant you tell?


Im just dreading doing it, have no idea how she will respond. And my Ex just pisses me the hell off that we cant even discuss a damn child issue.

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